Wedding Invitations
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“We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere...” Tim McGraw
Wedding Invitation List
The Smart bride and groom to-be need to sit down together and make
a list of who they want there to witness their special day.
The core of a successful wedding
invitation
list needs to consist of people who know well, care about and love
the Bride and Groom. With regard to business associates, the invitation
should be extended because of the friendship, not the business
connection. Be sure to take into consideration the number of people
who will fit comfortably into the ceremony and reception areas.
If the wedding is to be a large affair, not only their friends
but the friends of their parents as well, and business acquaintances
of both families should be invited.
Selecting Your Wedding
Invitations
Your invitations should be in sync with the style and formality
of your wedding. The style of your invitations
will be the first clue to your guests what type of event to expect.
Mailing the Wedding Invitation
All wedding invitations should
come from the home of the bride, even those that are for the personal
friends of her husband even if they are unknown to the bride. The
envelope should have the full names of the persons or family invited,
and the inside card should have the first names of each person.
When inviting a single person, it is common courtesy to write “and
Guest” along with their invitation. Wedding
Invitations should be mailed about six weeks before the day
set for the wedding. Out of town guests should be sent a "Save
the Date" card, preferably with hotel suggestions, in time
for them to make travel accommodations (usually 8-10 weeks in advance).
Destination Wedding Invitations
If you are planning a destination wedding, send your wedding
invitations out as early as 9 –10 weeks in advance, that
way as guests tell you that they cannot attend you can start sending
more invites to people on you back-up lists. Just make sure everyone
gets at least one months notice.
Wedding Invitation
Wording
The proper wedding invitation
wording is critical and should tell your guest everything there
is to know. Whether it be a Church wedding, home wedding, second
marriage or whatever, the proper etiquette and wedding
invitation wording are essential. There are customary guidelines
for wording your invitations. Many varieties are used, but the more
formal your wedding, the closer to tradition yours should be. Note
that the words honour and favour are always spelled with 'our' on
wedding stationery. The words 'honour of your presence' usually
appear in invitations to church ceremonies; the words 'pleasure
of your company' appear on invitations to non-church ceremonies
and wedding receptions.
| Standard Wording: Both sets of parents are funding the wedding: If Bride's parents are hosting, but would like to include
grooms parents on the invitation: When the bride and groom are paying for the wedding themselves,
the wording should read: OR Together with their parents, Brides parents are divorced: OR Divorced parents are hosting the wedding together: Child of divorced and remarried parents both hosting
the wedding: |












